"One day you’ll understand that it’s harder to be kind than clever.”
People are going through a lot in their everyday lives. They laugh, they enjoy, they suffer, they hurt. They experience the complete spectrum. The interesting thing is that it doesn't take much for us to feel happy or sad. Even the smallest things can make all the difference. It's fine if you've achieved emotional control. But people still struggle with managing their emotions, especially sadness. We all could use a little more cheer in our lives. Be aware of what others are going through. Be respectful. Don't judge too harshly and keep an open mind.
Spread happiness whenever you can. It could be as simple as doing something fun together so that they stop feeling bad. Be kind to people who aren't expecting it. Sympathize with their situations. If you find someone feeling gloomy, engage with them. If talking about it is comfortable for you both, then do that. If you don't share that kind of bond, just go somewhere with them: food, snacks, tea, games. A change of environment and some light fun might be just what they needed.
Become the kind of person who understands and empathizes with everyone. Someone, who can make everyone happy just by being there. Radiate happiness outward and onto everyone around you. Share your awesomeness. If you're happy and joyful, it becomes your responsibility to spread it. Bring some light in an otherwise dark world. Be childish and fun. Help those who seem unconfident or insecure. Be there with them and encourage them to take baby steps. Never ever judge their efforts.
One thing to note is to respect their boundaries. Don't push them too hard. Engage with them without crossing lines. If they aren't ready for your help, do something small with them (like going out for snacks).
Do all this but only upto a limit. You should always be respected for your contributions, never be taken for granted. If they don't respect you, let them go. There are other, better people, whose life you can enrich. Respect is primary. I have no problem walking away from people who don't respect me for what I'm bringing to the table. Also beware of energy traps, those people will just drain you.
Life is so much more than power games, calculations and manipulations. Be childish in your pursuits, those were the days you enjoyed the most. Don't be too afraid of being judged. Be a positive influence in every life you touch. Give happiness and the world will give it back to you. But have boundaries. Demand respect or walk away. Don't be a pushover.
